I never intended this blog to be about my lack of sleep. But since my Ever-So-Sweet Anna hasn't mastered the art yet, I guess it's still the topic of the day.
The girl is like an alarm clock. Yes indeedy. She knows when the clock will read 10:30 p.m., 12:35 a.m., 2:35 a.m., 4:35 a.m., and finally, 6:35 a.m.--which lately has been the point at which breastmilk no longer does the trick. She's up for the day...or at least for a couple of hours.
Did I mention I go to bed between 12:30 a.m. and 2:00 a.m.?
Let's just say Momma hasn't been exactly......hmm, well....spewing words of adoring praise toward her charges lately. I'm sounding more like a drippy faucet, oft times spewing nagging corrections. I'm ashamed to admit it.
So when the following conversation occurred a few days ago, I was blown away...by the grace of God.
The Scene--driving to AWANA and talking about our recent hike:
Momma: "Do you remember the last time we were on that trail? Momma was hugely pregnant and hot, carrying Anna Grace in the womb still. Now today I carried her in my arms! What a blessing that is!"
Daniel: "Daddy doesn't think babies are a blessing. That's for sure!" (laughing) "Do you think we'll have more?"
Momma: (Wondering how one tells a seven-year-old about vasectomies....a procedure I still don't agree had to happen.) "Well, I don't know for sure, but I think God might consider me to be too old. And Daddy too."
Daniel: "But if we did have more, wouldn't you be happy? Aren't babies always a blessing?" (I've said that many times...he's regurgitating.)
Momma: "Oh, yes. I would be happy. And Daddy loves his children very much, Daniel. He just has a hard time with the crying and the waking. You feel loved by Daddy, don't you?"
Daniel: (laughing) "Well.....most of the time."
Momma: Insanely curious as to what he would say, I tried this: "Do you feel loved by me?"
Daniel: (laughing) "Oh, yeah! Every single minute and second I do!"
Okay, you Mommas. Remember this. We aren't perfect. God still has chiseling to do on us. But our deeply-felt love for our children? He makes sure that comes through. Loudly. Grace abounds for tired, stressed-out Mommas.
Hallelujah.
And I know. Don't say it. I need to go to bed earlier.